Men Are Voiceless
When a woman slaps a man,our society is quick to defend her and say she was pushed and acted out of anger. When a woman decides to abort a child, we say its her right to decide. If she abandon her marriage we say she chose her piece of mind.
When a woman kills a man we defend her and say it was self defense, when she cheats we then say she was pushed because she wasn’t happy in a relationship. When she falsely accuse our brother of rape, we pity her and say she was misled or she didn’t know what she was doing.
Every time a woman does a despicable thing, our society is quick to defend her action by saying she had reasons for doing what she did.
But when a man slaps a woman he’s called an abuser, when he says he’s not ready to be a father we call him trash, when he leaves his marriage we call him a coward who’s heartless. How could he leave her with kids?
That’s what we say!
When a man kills a woman we call him a murderer,when he cheats he’s a dog, when he’s falsely accused of rape we convict him without evidence. We judge him before being proven guilty by the court of law. Every time a man does something wrong we call him trash, dog, heartless, monster, cheater, we call all sorts of names because his only mistake was to be born a man in a society that values only the rights of women not of men.
Society says “There’s nothing wrong with a baby boy bathing with his mother,but there’s everything wrong with a baby girl bathing with her father”.
Our society sees nothing wrong with a broke unemployed woman to find love and date,they say a woman’s job in a relationship is to respect,care and love her man.However it sees everything wrong with an unemployed man to date someone,they hide behind the notion that a man should be a provider and if he can’t he is then deemed a failure.
We slowly destroying the very same men we want as husbands, fathers to our kids, bothers and uncles. We wonder why our boy children turn out to be the same men we killed emotionally
MEN are hurting
They are emotionally wounded
Our brothers are bleeding inside.
Men are voiceless
Men don’t have rights
Men are destroyed by the same people who should be loving them unconditionally.
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So true you have clearly narrated the pressure , the feelings, and the pain of a man. I have had a good share of that from women.
Madam i wish you could be the President of South Africa, as men we don’t have voice to say something in the house and outside, what you saying is totally true and i support you, and God Almighty give you more wisdom to help his people, thank you 💡 Amen
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I couldn’t agree more with you on this Laura. Hopefully more people can discuss these issues, understanding that FAIRNESS is what will ultimately bring about the peace, quiet and harmonious living we all wish for between the genders, thus individuals. Only this morning, 09.11.22, a woman in the Eastern Cape bludgeoned her 4 kids to death with a sledgehammer and ALREADY some people, INCLUDING MEN, are SHIFTING the blame to the UNMENTIONED FATHER or FATHERS of the children! NOTHING in the news bulletins has been mentioned about the father(s) of those 4 children so we don’t know anything about his(their) situation(s) and whether he(they) lived with the family, was(were) absent, if so, due to work/visit or if he(they) is(are) even still alive!
Why is it ok to so readily shift blame to men for women’s heinous behaviour whilst the opposite does not apply? Earlier this year in KZN a father killed his 4 children because his wife had left him, noone blamed the wife! Why can’t people, WOMEN INCLUDED, be held solely responsible for their actions? We need to build a CULTURE OF RESPONSIBILITY, children, men and women alike! Thank you!
I couldn’t agree more with you on this Laura. Hopefully more people can discuss these issues, understanding that FAIRNESS is what will ultimately bring about the peace, quiet and harmonious living we all wish for between the genders, thus individuals. Only this morning, 09.11.22, a woman in the Eastern Cape bludgeoned her 4 kids to death with a sledgehammer and ALREADY some people, INCLUDING MEN, are SHIFTING the blame to the UNMENTIONED FATHER or FATHERS of the children! NOTHING in the news bulletins has been mentioned about the father(s) of those 4 children so we don’t know anything about his(their) situation(s) and whether he(they) live with the family, was(were) absent, if so, due to work/visit/parental alienation BY THIS MOTHER or if he(they) is(are) even still alive!
Why is it ok to so readily shift blame to men for women’s heinous behaviour whilst the opposite does not apply? Earlier this year in KZN a father killed his 4 children because his wife had left him, noone blamed the wife! Why can’t people, WOMEN INCLUDED, be held solely responsible for their actions? We need to build a CULTURE OF RESPONSIBILITY, children, men and women alike! Thank you!